You read the title of this post and you immediate think of social value. Although it is related, raising your social value isn’t what I am getting at. I get the feeling that men don’t realize that they can get women simply by taking something that they are interested in, and then taking it to the next level. The next level meaning that you gain enough attention from it that you start to get followers.
Back when I first started blogging in the mid-00s, one of the unintentional side effects was that I started to have women reach out to me. It originally didn’t even start out as a game blog. I was just writing about my college nights out with friends. It turns out that there were women out there that were just interested in my shenanigans. Women started emailing me, randomly adding me on Facebook, and friends started introducing me to women they knew. Even women in my social circle started to become fans because they would always comment on something I wrote.
This didn’t happen because I was some kind of Z-list celebrity. It happened because there were some women that were just genuinely fans. There were also women that shared similar interests, whether it was writing, partying, or talking about relationship dynamics. As long as I was consistent, the women continued to randomly show-up, especially back when I had a public social media presence.
If you are consistent about something, and start to somewhat make a name for yourself, the women will come. It’s all a matter of picking an interest, consistently updating, and spreading your content or brand everywhere that you can. If your content is even halfway decent, you will start to get followers, especially if it is an area that not a lot of people are covering already.
Almost every subject or topic that you can think of has it’s fans. Women with similar interest or an affinity for your type of content will eventually reach out. You might not be swimming in women, and they might not be models, but they’re there. Sometimes, women just want a man that can display that he is passionate about something, and becoming known or famous for a particular subject is how you display it. When it comes to attracting women, it’s better to be known for something weird, crazy, or even against social norms, than it is to not be known at all.